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SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN SERVING COUPLES, POLY, OPEN, KINKY, SWINGING, AND ANYTHING IN-BETWEEN

does this sound familiar?

Your partner is keen on exploring their queer identity, and you want to ensure that your relationship remains valued and meaningful

The polycule is struggling with communication and you want everyone to come to the table together

You're both intrigued by the idea of possibly opening your relationship and are seeking healthy ways to explore new paths together.

How an Ethically Non-monogamous Informed Therapist can help

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Science-based Approaches:

I combine The Gottman Method to help with skills and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy for understanding attachment patterns. Whether it's ENM or monogamous couples, my approach is pretty similar—just more folks involved in the relationship. I take all partnerships through a structured process of interviews (Both together and individually) to dig into your history and spot those patterns, along with a detailed relationship assessment.

Explore Options

Considering opening up your relationship but feeling uncertain about how to navigate it? Working together I'll assist in those initial discussions, starting from an attachment theory perspective. Are you leaning towards Relationship Anarchy? Perhaps a close-knit Kitchen Table Polycule? Or maybe something entirely different? It's YOUR relationship, and we'll shape it based on your preferences.

Learn to Understand Each other

You'll pick up some solid relationship skills and get to understand each other better. We'll dig into the dynamics between you and your partner(s) to build a vibe of empathy and deep understanding together.

no fear of judgement: In this space, there's no room for shaming or therapists steering you toward monogamy based on their biases. I embrace diverse interests—whether it's being kinky, furry, or exploring power dynamics, it's all welcome here!

I'm not just trained in kink, BDSM, and Polyamory—I'm also an active member of these communities I serve. 

I've experienced firsthand the struggle of finding a therapist who truly understands. Being part of these communities has taught me the subtleties that textbooks and classes can't capture.

I've been an active member of the furry community since 2008. Through that journey, I discovered the kink and leather scenes and navigated my own path in open and poly relationships. Beyond my sex therapy certification, I've also pursued advanced studies in consensual non-monogamy and polyamory. So, it's not just about theory—I truly understand what it's like to be in your shoes. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What are some common things ethically non-monogamous couples work on in therapy?

People in open relationships often seek therapy to tackle various things: setting boundaries, handling parenting issues, dealing with jealousy, practicing safe sex, improving communication, and navigating feelings of insecurity.

Can just two of us come to therapy or does it have to be the entire polycule?

I often work with couples where just two of them show up for therapy to boost their relationship. Usually, it's the main nesting partners looking to strengthen their bond.

Let's explore and pave your way forward.

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